You continue to dream of the future even as your dream conflicts with the constraints of the moment. An optimistic and hopeful view collides with a more discriminating view ....you cannot NOT see the flaws that are keeping you from moving to fulfill your dreams. You realize you need more freedom in personal relationships. You may blurt out your need to follow your own star, but others may not understand what you are trying to communicate. They see pride and bluster; you see a reasonable request that you need room to do YOU. Hint: bring others along by explaining your point of view. What seems to come out of the blue is actually something you have thought about for some time. They just need to brought along into your process. You get the freedom to do you; they understand you still care.